Little Luxuries: A Case for the Candle Snuffer

Little luxuries: A case for the Candle Snuffer

There’s something magical about burning a candle. The soft glow, the flicker of light, and the warmth it brings to a room and the nostalgia of a special fragrance. Whether it’s for a special occasion or just an ordinary evening, candles have the power to transform a space. But in our home, the magic wasn’t just in lighting the candle—it was in the ritual of putting it out, too.

Every year during the holidays, my mom would pull out our candle snuffer along with the other holiday decor. It was a small, (sometimes) polished brass tool that only seemed to make an appearance during the Advent season. As children, my 4 siblings and I would sit around the dinner table, waiting for the moment when the Advent candle needed to be extinguished, and, as siblings do, we’d argue and bicker over who got the honor of snuffing out the candle that night.

“It's my turn!”

“No, you did it last night!”

As I look back, I realize that those moments—lighting the candle, watching the flicker, and gently snuffing it out—are among my favorite holiday memories.

A Daily Ritual with a Touch of Elegance

Fast forward to today, and candles are an everyday fixture in our home. The soft glow has a way of winding down the day and transforming our space into a cozy retreat. And as simple as it may seem, the candle snuffer holds a special place in our home.

In the business of daily life, it’s the little luxuries that can make all the difference. Lighting a candle at the end of a long day can feel like hitting the reset button, a small moment of peace. And, when it's time to extinguish the candle,there’s something undeniably satisfying about putting that candle out with a snuffer. It adds a final, luxurious touch to the ritual, a gentle closing that makes even the most ordinary days feel a little more special.

Three Practical Reasons to Use a Candle Snuffer

Beyond the nostalgia and luxury, a candle snuffer has some very practical uses as well. Here are three reasons why I love keeping one handy year round:

  1. Prevents Wax Splatter: Blowing out a candle can cause hot wax to splatter. A snuffer allows you to extinguish the flame without disturbing the melted wax, keeping everything clean and safe.

  2. Minimizes Smoke:  A snuffer gently cuts off the oxygen to the flame, which means less smoke and soot when extinguishing the flame. This keeps your home smelling fresh and avoids those pesky smoke stains on walls or ceilings.

  3. Adds an Extra Layer of Safety: Candles can be dangerous, especially when they’re in higher or hard-to-reach spots or nestled into decorative holders. With a snuffer, you can easily and safely put out the flame without getting too close or risking burns.

In the end, it’s these little things that make life feel more luxurious. Whether it’s the tradition of snuffing out the Advent candles during the holidays or simply winding down after a busy day, a candle snuffer is a small indulgence that adds a touch of elegance to the everyday.

Four suggestions to get you started

Below are 4 candle snuffers I recommend to get you started:

Cat Lady Aesthetic

Demure & Pretty - it's the scallop details for me

Classic - a year round option

Festive - perfect for your holiday aesthetic!

The next time you light a candle, consider adding a snuffer to your routine. It’s not just about putting out the flame—it’s about savoring the moment and making even the simplest rituals feel special.